I just got done having a lengthy conversation with my boyfriend. I ran across a file folder of his that he labeled Miami filing bankruptcy. I honestly tried hard, but I couldn't contain my curiosity. I had to open it! I know I probably shouldn't have, but I didn't know what it was initially. I hadn't noticed the writing at first and it almost looked like one of my file folders that I forgot to put away. I was kind of shocked when I opened it up and I saw some of his financial statements. I had always thought he was managing his debts pretty well! I knew he would probably be mad that I found that, but I was worried about him and I couldn't stay quiet about it. Anyways, luckily, my boyfriend was very calm about it. He said that we would be able to continue our conversation after work tonight. I just have so many questions right now. I'm just basically wondering why he felt like he had to keep his debts a secret from me. I don't like to think it, but it makes me wonder what else he might be keeping a secret about. I just didn't peg him as the secret-keeping type, especially around me. It does hurt my feelings. I am really looking forward to getting a chance to smooth things over.